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March 2, 2014, 09:09 PM | #26 |
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Unfortunately, some people can only learn the hard way, assuming they live to move beyond it. I would think just watching the crime programs liked "Disappeared," "Joe McKenna" or reading Ann Rule's "The Stranger Beside Me" to get how quickly bad things will happen...and how easily. People are always surprised that I study martial arts. It's odd isn't it? No one says of a bear, "don't worry, it's female." Every female creature of the wild knows to fight and must to survive. Only human females think it's more feminine to be a victim than to fight back. Not to be negative but I don't see her changing. If being there for her children isn't worth it for her to defend herself, nothing will change her mind until something bad happens. Not what you wanted to hear, but it's true.
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March 2, 2014, 11:26 PM | #27 |
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Mastrogiacomo is 100% spot on. There are also men who fall into this mentality.
Wolves, sheep and sheepdogs, I suppose. |
March 3, 2014, 01:53 AM | #28 |
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if she's part of medical field (doctor/nurse) could it possibly be the Hippocratic Oath? to do no harm? that may have her second guessing herself. just a thought...
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March 3, 2014, 12:28 PM | #29 |
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She lives with you and presumably knows your views and opinions on the subject. But, some people can just never bring themselves to inflict injury on another human under any circumstances. Until/unless she is willing to make "THE DECISION" there is nothing you can do to convince her to carry. Logic doesn't apply. It is a human condition.
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March 6, 2014, 11:59 AM | #30 |
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She's not my wife but a girl I used to talk to said she couldn't carry a gun cause if she were ever in a situation where she needed it she'd freeze and be killed by her own weapon. Upon hearing that I thought maybe shed do the same with other difficult situations including nonviolent ones and it seemed to show in all of her personal decisions and issues so I just stopped talking to her. Not saying anything about anyone's wife, just sharing my short experience with a girl who has no fight in her.
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March 6, 2014, 03:08 PM | #31 | |
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If so, does she ask for the service ? How about working in a more safe facility ? Nobody can be forced to take responsibility for something not of interest. I sure hope she stays safe though. |
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March 6, 2014, 03:35 PM | #32 |
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I don't know any women that carry anything here for self defence. My wife doesn't carry anything and I have no concerns. Bad thing can happen but the odds very small.
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March 6, 2014, 06:28 PM | #34 |
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Tell her you have decided to cancel your car, life, medical and homeowner's insurance.
Then take down the smoke detectors and the fire extinguisher and put them in the trash. Cut the seatbelts out of your car, disable the airbags and throw away the kid's car-seat. While you're at it, give away the dog and remove the locks from your front and back doors. Think she'll get the message then? |
March 6, 2014, 07:38 PM | #35 |
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We are starting to go in circles.
If a person has a personality constellation such that active self-defense does not appeal to them and your hopefully rational arguments do not change that view - there is little to be done. If emotional horror stories of crime don't worth either - there's really nothing left. That it, folks?
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You forget to lock the thread when you left, Glenn?
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March 6, 2014, 10:59 PM | #37 |
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If you expect your [wife, girlfriend, significant other, lover, friend, husband, boyfriend, partner] to respect your choices about carrying a gun and protecting yourself, then you must respect their choices about same.
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