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July 24, 2009, 01:04 PM | #1 |
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She Said "You don't know who your messin' with."
The other day my boss asked me to take the company lawn mower over to a place we do buisness with and mow their lawn. I was happy to do so as it got me out of the office for a few hours. The property I was mowing had a lot of pine trees were the grass was thin below and I was kicking up a lot of dust.
as I was loading the mower a woman came out of the building screaming that her car had got dusty (not damaged mind you, and barely dusty considering it was a black car) I appolagized and explained to her politely that the dust was behond my control but if I mowed there again I would knock and let her know so she could move her car. she then exlaimed "you don't know who your messing with" and pulled out a little can of mace! I was blown away, I was actually hoping she was going to mace me at that point, I would loved to see her explain to the police that she sprayed me for getting her car dusty. and no I didn't call the police over the threat, I know I should have but my boss didn't want to make waves with the company as we do quite a bit of buisness with them. oh yeah speaking of "you don't know who your messing with" I wonder how quick she would have been to pull that mace if she knew I was carrying a pistol?
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While I understand that you are venting about a frustrating incident, you may want to reconsider what you posted. While you may not have intended it, the implication is that you'd pull a gun on someone threatening you with mace just to win a p*ssing match. Not a great thing to post on a public forum.
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I infact did not pull my gun and never had any intention of doing so.
I am definetly not implying I would have pulled my gun or even considered such a thing, I want to make that very clear. I'm just pointing out what a stupid move her actions were. I'm sure there is a lot of idiots out there that would have though
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I try not to speculate about how others would behave if they knew I was armed (versus assuming I am unarmed). When all is said and done, it's really irrelevant - people behave however they behave, and I act and react accordingly (of course, I do my utmost to avoid any behavior which someone else might find confrontational).
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The world is full of dumbasses.
You should have maced her! ("Mace unto others before they mace unto you...")
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I bet if you were open carrying she would not even have confronted you. Not saying subtle intimidation is a good thing, but 95% of the peope out there who are looking for someone to mess with are going to pick someone without a pistol on their hip.
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Gun, Knife, Mace; Still an Aggravated Assault in most jurisdictions.
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Zespectre,
I suppose if my post wasn't read carefully you could have got that opinion from the title, I simply thought it was ironic that she would declare that I didn't know who I was messin with becuse she had mace. I'm actually glad you pointed it out so I could clarify
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Why do we encourage people to carry a weapon in the first place? To empower them! One of the most common things seen on these forums is, "I am not going to be a victim." There are also a lot of "My wife is afraid of guns" topics and one of the most common answers is that if someone is either not physically capable of handling a gun or is not comfortable with the possibility of killing someone, then the should at least carry can can of pepper spray or mace. The whole idea is to stop an attacker and she was more than ready to do so. You posed a threat to her. She doesn't know what a fine upstanding law-abiding citizen you are. She did exactly the right thing. You are just lucky she backed off. To finish off with your sentence I started with: Quote:
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how did I pose a threat to her? I was nothing but polite even after she threatend to mace me.
I think you answered your own question, I would like to have seen her face legal consequences of having maced someone over nothing. I'll ask again what threat did I pose? she came running out screaming at me, had she aproached me rationaly I may have even given her a couple bucks to get her car washed.
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I've got to say, Scott, you pretty much invented that entire interpretation out of thin air. No justification for your response whatsoever.
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I want to apologize to every one for getting there hackles up.
I did not post this trying to start an argument (but thanks to everybody that saw it from my point of view anyhow)
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The irony is obvious, and i think the story is kind of funny (since the OP didn't actually get maced - it sucks, big time) and she didn't have to go to jail for assaulting him. Geez, i know he should have mowed the grass more carefully and all but...
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I would have called the police, and done everything in my power to see her prosecuted. Not making waves for the boss ends when someone threatens me.
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How did you pose a threat to her? She doesn't know you from Adam and you got her car dirty. She had no way of knowing that you work for your family business (see, I do read other posts!) and was just doing what your boss (most likely a relative) asked you to do. To her, you were probably just some punk kid cutting grass.
Did she go a little too far? Absolutely. But we do tell people to be situationally aware and maybe, just maybe, the fact that you disrespected her property made the little hairs on the back of her neck stand up and she took action. You know you weren't doing anything wrong, but she didn't. Maybe she had a bad experience in the past which may be why she had the mace in the first place. Just because you carry a gun doesn't always make you right! Scott
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The whole "you don't know who you're messin' with" bit is neither here nor there. The fact is that she overreacted in a big way. I'm thankful that mace is all she's carrying, if she had a gun she would be a PR disaster for gun owners waiting to happen. Edit: Quote:
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scott, I think you may just be the devils advocate my friend.
and as for the post your refering to she definetly would have had reason to be concerned then. got to tip my hat you there, glad those two things didn;t occur on the same day!
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It is not up to us to tell make that judgement call for her and determine what is a threat and what isn't. Bless her heart and I bet you don't mess with her again! Maybe you should go over there in proper business attire with some sort of peace offering from your company? And for peetzakilla: Quote:
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Threat: menace: something that is a source of danger; "earthquakes are a constant threat in Japan" a warning that something unpleasant is imminent; "they were under threat of arrest" declaration of an intention or a determination to inflict harm on another; "his threat to kill me was quite explicit" terror: a person who inspires fear or dread; "he was the terror of the neighborhood" Threaten: threaten - endanger: pose a threat to; present a danger to; "The pollution is endangering the crops" threaten - to utter intentions of injury or punishment against:"He threatened me when I tried to call the police" threaten - to be a menacing indication of something:"The clouds threaten rain"; "Danger threatens"
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If she REALLY felt threatened....
she wouldn't have run out of her house to confront a strange man. If I'm in my house and there is someone outside it that I feel threatened by...I call the cops. Only once they start coming into my house (or, in this case, even enter my property), thats when I take action personally.
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