Grab a cup of coffee, cocoa or whatever you sip while thinking and visit these sites:
I composed a longish article, "My 10 Advices for the Novice Handloader" which you can see here as post #7
http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?p=7672653
Post #8 shows a selection of threads that have a lot of good information, not just my posts, either.
Good luck
Lost Sheep