[RBid]

It's nowhere near as hard as people make it sound. There are multiple "right answers" for you.


Step 1) determine carry method.

Step 2) determine the size range within which you can comfortably and consistently carry.

Step 3) within the options that fit your size range, pick a reliable weapon that you like.


I recommend carrying the most combat capable weapon that you can carry full time.


Example:

1) I value efficient presentation, and ease of concealment without being forced to change my wardrobe to dress around my weapon. I determined that IWB is the method that works best for me as a go-to method. (Tip: wearing a 'wife beater' tank top made of thick material under your shirt is great for muting prints)

2) after experimenting a bit, I figured out that I can comfortably carry up to a Glock 19.

3) I checked out comparably sized options, and found that I really like the Ruger SR9c, S&W M&P 9c, and Glock 26 (with Pearce floor plates to allow a full grip). Among those, the Ruger felt best to me.