Stevie-Ray,
Not to be too indelicate, but I'm fat, and never leave my legs together while doing my thing.
Sorry, I know it's TMI! But I don't know how else to make it clear -- gravity is the same for both sexes, and unholstering in public for reasons other than self-defense is bad juju.
Again, rebuckle the belt at or below the knee if keeping a hand on the holstered firearm isn't an option. Or flip the entire
holstered firearm into the trousers if you must. But don't take the firearm out of its safe, inert, secure, trigger-covered resting place unless you need to shoot someone. There's no safe direction in a public stall.
pax