1chig, if it were me, I would start with this one from lee at midway;
http://www.midwayusa.com/viewProduct...tNumber=141951
You could then go up and down in bullet weight from there. By buying more molds of course. Then for the sizer and lube, I would go with this set-up from lee.
http://www.midwayusa.com/viewProduct...tNumber=685087
Yes, you can use the lee liquid alox with conventional lube groove bullets. It works just fine, I do it all the time. The lee sizers are on sale right now, at least this one is.
With these two items, you could be casting and loading some bullets right away. If you find that you'd really like a lubrisizer press, then later you could get a Lyman, RCBS, or star.
http://www.midwayusa.com/viewProduct...tNumber=458891