Proper black stainless involves chemically converting the chrome in the stainless to chromium sulfate. I have done this in the lab at work.
The process involves immersion in a molten dichromate salt bath at about 750 degrees F. Very nasty process. Good results. This is how the M1 Garand gas cylinders were blackened years ago, it is a very durable finish.
Of course it might be best to leave it to the professionals:
http://www.robarguns.com/additionalfinishes.asp