Years ago I made the mistake of buying a gun for my wife (S&W M36). She hated the trigger and the recoil. After spending the better part of the summer at the range with me and shooting every gun I owned and every gun someone was willing to let her shoot she decided on
my 2 3/4" Ruger Security Six .357 as her ccw! The moral of the story, let her shoot a bunch of handguns and have her decide