Briandg, the urge to do harm to people who have harmed us or those close to us is a very normal reaction to your situation. Yet what separates us from animals and much lessor societies is we generally act under the rule of law and accepted social behavior. I will always defend myself and family with whatever force in necessary, but I refuse to lower myself to the level of the people who have forced me into the use of violence.
I’m sorry for your loss and hope that you will be able to put this ugly incident behind you and move on with your life.
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