Thanks for the suggestions. Again, I'm not even remotely picking a gun for her, just looking for a place to start.
We had an old J-frame, my GF hated it. Stiff recoil and not easy to shoot accurately. Three cylinders and she was done.
The nice thing is I'll be making some powderpuff practice reloads so whatever she does get, it won't beat up her size zero hands.
