Sgtlumpy, I suggested the 92 because the op said he wanted to hand down a full size pistol to his kids later in life as adults. Now having said that I will agree that is has a wide grip and for some, the controls can be hard to get used to. Once you do get used to the controls however it is a very nice firearm and is very easy to shoot well. I will also admit that it is a heavy firearm when compared to most other popular 9mm, but easy to get used to. In the end I am going to stand by my original recommendation, but that's just cause I love mine so much
