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October 19, 2009, 06:15 AM | #1 |
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How to answer that knock on the door.
How to respond to a "knock knock" on the door. So it's 3pm, loud knock on the door, could it be a friend? Mom? A deaf person who needs help too short to reach the view slot? You have people come in and out all day. You hear your name along with the knock... do you. 1) Load you shotgun turn the safety off and proceed? 2)You grab a baseball bat and proceed? 3)Grab you full size handgun and proceed? 4) Grab mace and proceed? 5)Or do what most people do and just answer assuming it's cool with no weapon? How about getting a book..
Seems casual to answer the door in your PJ's with a book, and you don't seem threatening nor are you visually armed (but at the ready to draw). Keep you foot on the door like a doorstop and keep your book on your support hand so you are ready to shoot. Also those 'Cabelas' Clock gun stashes are pretty sweet |
October 19, 2009, 06:21 AM | #2 |
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At 3pm it could just be a Brownie sellin' cookies...
My dogs do the initial door responding with several voices tellin' the "knocker" I will be there directly... Brent |
October 19, 2009, 06:24 AM | #3 |
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Brownies!!!
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October 19, 2009, 06:54 AM | #4 |
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I look through the peephole and ask who it is through the intercom before opening or unlocking anything. Admittedly, at 3 PM I'm on low alert, but you never know these days.
Slight hijack: If you're outside and someone walks up your driveway, what then? Are you carrying your weapon at all times? |
October 19, 2009, 07:13 AM | #5 |
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Anyone knocking at 3 a.m. better get ready to camp out in front of my door for the rest of the night. Just because someone's knocking doesn't mean I have to open the door or even peep out to see who's sinister or inconsiderate or stupid enough to knock on my door at that time of night.
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October 19, 2009, 07:28 AM | #7 |
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I answer the door unarmed.
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October 19, 2009, 07:59 AM | #8 |
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I subscribe to Pax's standard of being dressed.
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October 19, 2009, 09:37 AM | #9 |
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@ the OP:
I think I'll get one of those gun clocks so I can answer the door every time carrying a clock. Just to see what people say. |
October 19, 2009, 09:48 AM | #10 |
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our door is answered the same way 24/7
it remains closed and locked unless family or friendly neighbor we know. the answer is: "state your full name / state your business" 8 out of 10 walk away. 1 out of 10 doesn't understand the command and starts talking or looking around confused. the other 1 out of 10 can usually state their full name and presents credentials or a product / business card for something they are selling. once in a while depending on time and activity, the door is opened for them. But rarely. |
October 19, 2009, 11:44 AM | #11 |
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If I'm dressed I just cant my weaponside away from them and answer it. If I'm in my pj's I just hold my 45 behind my leg where they can't see it. Taking a book to the door seems kind of involved in a KISS issue.
The book is good, I have one too but it's for a different job... |
October 19, 2009, 09:56 PM | #12 | |
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If I am outside and some stranger approaches me I can just leisurely stick my hand in my pocket until I am convinced that he is no threat. If I am inside and someone rings the doorbell or knocks, I look through the peephole to see who it is. If I know them, I let them in. If it is a stranger and he doesn't appear threatening, I open the inside door with my hand in my pocket. The storm door is still locked and I talk to him through it. Depending on the conversation and what I see, I may or may not let him in. In addition to my pocket gun, I have other guns (a 9 mm and a couple of .45's) strategically placed in my house for easy and quick access to me. And when I am in my vehicle, one of them goes into the vehicle along with the pocket gun. |
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October 19, 2009, 10:22 PM | #13 |
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You guys must all live in Baghdad. I've never known anybody paranoid enough to answer the door with a gun in the middle of the afternoon. Understandable behavior for a war-zone, but not everywhere. I have PTSD, and am prone to securing perimeters, seeking out threats, and lots of other fun defensive behaviors, so I don't generally try to maintain an illogical level of fear. It's a pretty small man who can't face the world on his own doorstep in the afternoon on a beautiful day without a loaded weapon. Sorry, folks, but if a world of violent endings is around every corner, you always feel a need to be prepared for lethal combat, and you don't live in the midst of heavy warfare, you suffer from a mental disorder. I'm not kidding, and this really isn't meant to be funny. I live with a level of fear that screws with every part of my life, and listening to guys from anywhere but the slums talk like there's a good reason to go everywhere armed to the teeth, locked and cocked here at home is ridiculous. Keeping a weapon for security is fine, but only when you combine it with the common sense to know when your security is truly under threat. If everybody answered the door armed, home invasions would evolve to meet the circumstances, and a guy with an unregistered .22 suppressor would plug you between the eyes from your neighbor's bushes. You can't have absolute security, and putting more guns everywhere won't make anybody safer. For instance, if you'd even consider carrying a firearm for protection in an even slightly crowded place, you don't have the self discipline, or concern for the safety of others to be carrying a weapon anywhere, period. Gunfights involve everyone in range, whether they are a part of it or not, and you should, and in most places will, be held responsible for the unintended results of your actions. Fear is a poor excuse for living.
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October 19, 2009, 10:48 PM | #15 |
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Explain to me the constant state of armed preparation for lethal conflict in the absence of anything but the outside world. If you really think there is a good reason for anyone to carry a weapon EVERYWHERE, I'd suggest that you are subject to the kind of irrational thought that is normally defined as paranoid. It's not abnormal for people (men particularly) to get caught in a cycle of constant defense, but it's not stable. I carried a loaded M-9 and M-4 carbine with me everywhere I went for a year after coming home fro the war, and it was absolutely ridiculous. It's a reaction to feeling insecure, and under threat. I'd be interested to know exactly what you fear, and why you think you can't be truly safe without your gun.
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I don't "think I can't be truly safe without a gun" I know I can be safe without a gun--I've never actually needed one to date--but I also realize that guns have useful features that can, very rarely in most cases, come in very handy. There's a difference in wanting to be prepared and being afraid that you won't be prepared.
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October 19, 2009, 10:58 PM | #17 |
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I think its common sense of what to do.
Do not open the door and stand off-center to the door at a distance. Look out a sidewindow and visually identify the person if you can. Keep a weapon like a baseball bat or a pistol nearby. I would at least have a baseball bat in hand at the ready or very close by. As for neighborhoods in America, there are some places where the police use two man cars and feel the need to take their shotguns out on routine traffic stops. There was this one main street in Long Beach, California where I always saw one of the officers pulling out a shotgun when they pulled someone over. I remember reading this one news story where around Bakersfield a gang-filled neighborhood trapped a lone cop when he tried to bust up a party. So if the police have trouble in some of these neighborhoods then its best to answer the door with a pistol in hand. In America, sometimes we dont always have the option of picking and choosing where we live... Another thing is what if you are out say living in Minnesota or Texas where the police response is something like an hour or so. You live in a remote area and someone just knocks on your door. If that was my situation, then believe me, I'm answering the door with pistol in hand. If you have ever lived on a remote farm or ranch out in Minnesota where there is 1 officer to ever 100 square miles then you would carry that pistol where ever you go. |
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I don't answer the door unless it's someone I'm expecting or a neighbor. I don't see any reason whatsoever to open my home to unexpected strangers. If you need to come to my home, call first. If you don't know me well enough to know my phone number, then I don't know you well enough to open my home to you.
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October 19, 2009, 11:06 PM | #19 |
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If you don't need it, never have, and acknowledge that the threat has never materialized, then the threat is not prevalent enough to warrant going armed. I also didn't tell you what you were afraid of, or ascribe my fears to you, I asked you what you are afraid of that motivates you to go armed. So far you have failed to explain yourself, choosing instead to discredit me. I was in a poor state of mind, and paranoid, what are you? I'm not interested in reading quotes from the statement I just made. I'm curious to know just what is so damn scary out there. I live in a fairly large city with it's fair share of violent crime, and I own allot of guns, but I don't keep any of them loaded, and never carry them outside my home unless I have a good reason to. I don't have the first clue what you think about any of this except that you seem to need to think that I'm an idiot, or simply don't "get it". Fill in the missing pieces for me, explain it. Nobody is entitled to a free opinion without having to explain themselves. Especially not if they want the rest of the world to trust them carrying lethal weapons everywhere they go with no apparent purpose but vague fears of "bad guys" lurking everywhere, or simply because they can.
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If you start with the assumption that fear, paranoia and mental disorders are what motivate people to go armed and refuse to entertain any other possibility, how can anyone explain anything to you?
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October 19, 2009, 11:50 PM | #21 |
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I ask who it is,if i know them i open the door.If i don't know them i stand to the left of the door open it and keep my body pushing up against it with my gun side to the rear.I am always cautious when opening the door to strangers/people i don't know.
I am neither paranoid nor mentally unstable....I am cautious.As we all should be opening the door to strangers. |
October 20, 2009, 12:38 AM | #22 |
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I just deleted a personal attack and a response to that personal attack.
No more of those in this thread, please. If you have a point to make, do it without insulting ANYONE -- even those nutcases you disagree with. pax |
October 20, 2009, 12:42 AM | #23 |
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can we all agree that to some degree, owning a gun and carrying is a bit of fun? that it has a bit of a rush, if you've never shot someone before or never truly had to defend your life.
thats just what it boils down to sometimes. thanks to greensteelforge for offering some much needed perspective to everyone, including myself. on a similar note, his postings reminded me of a story i heard someone tell the other day: (it's relevant, i swear) (and if you know the area, it was in Holt, Michigan... not Lansing, or even Detroit...) "so yesterday afternoon i was running up to the store for my boss to get some milk. the only store i could find was a liquor store on the corner. i was a bit wary, but decided to venture in. upon entering, i noticed 3 'thug' looking characters, looked down at my diamond pendant around my neck and slowly tucked it into my shirt. my adrenaline started to rush. i had left my glock at home that day, but boy did i wish i had it, but i figured, i work out, i should be able to take these guys. bought the milk and came home barely safe' |
October 20, 2009, 12:47 AM | #24 |
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I almost ruined a good honeymoon with the fact that I was all hyped up on needing to have a gun with me at times where we were perfectly safe. I think owning guns/carrying is a constant struggle for some people, myself included, to not get carried away with the paranoia that may inherently come with the territory.
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greensteelforge,
Why not carry a handgun? It is relatively easy. It is a tool which grants options to the possessor that would otherwise not exist. Quote:
In many respects a handgun is a type of insurance. One which you hope to never use. I do not carry a handgun because I live in fear. I carry a handgun because I live in a country where I can. It takes little effort. I am well trained, skilled, and responsible. It keeps my options open. It is a philosophy. |
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