Bigbore,
Your post was basically opinioning that when someone is unnecessarily annoying you it is your fault for getting annoyed.
You must be a saint, since I'm sure no one else's behavior annoys you. But wait, I wrote one sentence and you're all upset.
So here's the deal. Sometimes, you'll be posting on a board and someone will sit right down next to you and post something loud you don't like. Instead of getting annoyed with me, you should look at this as training. With a little of the discipline you've mentioned, you should be able to keep posting without losing your cool, as you have here.
You should also train yourself to be able to withstand unnecessary words. After all, there are no assigned seats on this board, no niceties.
LMAO!