Never forget that everybody who is seeing what is going down is seeing a different thing, ... and for different reasons.
and that those differences can lead to tragic consequences.
http://reason.com/blog/2012/06/12/fa...ate-shot-to-de
We were taught early to always remember Kurosawa's classic,
"Rashomon"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rashomon_(film)
and its hard lesson that has become known as the Rashomon Effect.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rashomon_effect
.