[zombieslayer]

I, too know someone who was raped severely in a home invasion. I've took her shooting, and shes a great shot... but when I try to give her a .38 snub, she tells me over and over about how she could NEVER shoot someone for ANY reason. She, too, said she'd rather die than defend herself with any kind of weapon. It really has baffled me, and to be honest, I really care about her and it worries me that she seems to have NO instincts of self defence. It's encouraging to hear about women who are concearned about not being the victim, and take a proactive role in taking care of themselves!