Being blunt is the only way. Letting somebody interfere with your enjoyment will screw up your entire week if you let it.
A directly stated "I'm a little busy right now, maybe some other day? OK?" will usually get them off your back - but don't engage them when they give you a smart-ass comment like "Ok, just trying to help"...
One comment, no replies... and them simply ignore them and enjoy yourself.
Why can't more people understand that when somebody wants advice, they either ask for it - or they pay for it.
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