Read this sticky for info on what you need to get started.
http://thefiringline.com/forums/showthread.php?t=230171
A huge factor in all of this is going to be how much are you able to afford to spend? Budget is a huge factor.
Midway is a good place to do buisness with. Thier customer service will go the extra mile, and then some if you have any problems. Sometimes they are bit more expensive than a few other places though most times it evens out, and they have super quick shipping as an option.
Here is a good starter kit, it even includes am manual. I would recomend adding a scale as the Lee scale is very accurate, it is simple, and it is a real chore to use properly.
http://www.midwayusa.com/product/785...dex-deluxe-kit
If cost is the big factor, then here is a kit that is cost effective. The only thing is it takes a bit longer to load up large batches of ammo. I started with a similar kit. The only differance is mine came with the hand priming tool, and the shell holders for it. In fact I still load with the press, and still use the powder measure for pistol reloading. I would recomend just order Auto Prime XR with the shell holder kit when you order the kit, and add a Lyman 49th, and the Lyman Pistol & Revolver 3rd Edition for Manuals.
http://www.midwayusa.com/product/423...nniversary-kit
If loading bottle necked rifle rounds order the lockstud, and guage for the case trimmer, and use a cordless drill. If you do not want to use a drill order a Lee Zip Trim for the around $10 to $15.