Hi Bill,
The only way you're going to carry your Kimber Compact concealed without a coat is with a workman type holster. If you are willing to cover your pistol's grip with a coat or other clothing, our favorite IWB in our experience has been the KyTac Braveheart. With your size and build, you may want to consider a smaller handgun considering your dressing habits. While we don't advocate it as a first choice for carry, pocket carry can be accomplished safely and successfully with a good gun/pocket holster combo. Look to the P9 from Kahr as a possibility.
HTH!
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