Since you are looking for DEEP concealment, a j frame is obviously not valid here.
I see two choices for you when you really look at quality first as a deep conceal piece.
LCP and the new Walther PPS. The PPS is extraordinarily slim, but still may be a tad large for you. The LCP is minuscule while maintaining good control, and the trigger is astonishingly nice.
The Seecamp is also nice, but .32 is not as good of a round for you as the .380 is, and Seecamp's .380 is a tad rough when you shoot it compared to the LCP.
Another consideration if you'd prefer 9mm...
http://www.rohrbaughfirearms.com/ but they are ungodly expensive for a pocket 9. Quality does appear to be top notch however.
Any of these would work great in a velcro'd body armor/vest holster under your uniform shirt, or as a pocket gun when you are in plainclothes.