I own more RedDots types than I can count, at this time. I've often commented that these are a learning curve and one should be patient with them and themselves. In short time, your mind will "program" itself to work with one and the process is natural and surprising. ....
Just superimpose the dot onto the target and trust that the shot will be there. For the most part, I don't think I consciously see the dot. .....
Trust and;
Be Safe !!!