This topic has been discussed at length many many many times.
Read over a few older forum posts & you'll find a top .357magnum round for your needs. If you want a good list, here are a few brands;
Speer Gold Dot 110gr JHP, Speer Gold Dot 125gr JHP, Hornady 125gr JHP, Corbon DPX or PowRball. The Remington Golden Saber 125gr JHP, the Federal 125gr JHP, the MagSafe .357magnum load, Glaser Silver Safety Slug, Buffalo Bore .357magnum defense rounds, Winchester Ranger T .357magnum.
Some gunners put down frangibles & exotic rounds but for magnum revolvers, I feel they have merit.
Recoil muzzle blast & flash are the big issues but many top firms like Corbon, Remington, Hornady, Speer, etc have improved designs.
CF
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