In the context of the scenario, and in the "heat of the moment", initially, I wouldn't be to awful concerned about whether or not he enjoys it. If I had a guy approaching me, obviously agitated with a woman yelling "that's him right there", and out on a call with a pool being "slashed", you better betcha I'm gonna be on "high alert" (1*
). Furthermore as I read it, the gun was out of the holster but never pointed at the individual. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, sidearm by your side, barrel down. Lastly it seems like he did everything he could to smooth it over with him, in the end, which is obviously the right thing to do as well. I say good job here.