Denise, Vicki Farnam was there for Friday's session, and we had one lady (and I don't toss that word around lightly) participant. A college perfesser in her late 50's, maybe. She was packing a piece too large for her hands, and had a lot of trouble. Vicki took her aside and spent most of the day one on one with her. 9mms were well represented, and respected. They don't move steel targets as well as .45 hardball, though.
In short, ladies and mouse guns are welcome! The language from John is a bit rough, but otherwise it's a good place for ladies. But it's not a beginner's course. Know good grip, sighting, and how to operate your weapon.