I seem to remember from a long, long time ago that I was so much smarter than my parents. Listening but not hearing. If not for good basic upbringing I doubt I would have lived long enough to realize how stupid I was. So, how you raised him is probably your main hope. Though you didn't say, there may be a monetary lever you could start pulling on, if you are paying for/helping pay.
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