I would suggest the SR9c. It's a fine range gun with the larger mag and easily concealed with the smaller one. It's got a manual safety which does not have to be used. (I use mine). For me it was the perfect combination of weight and size and capacity. YMMV. There is even a floorplate for the smaller mag that is flat (without the lip for the pinky) Most carry guns are a compromise to some degree.
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