you are right. my mentality changed not everything around me. I do realize that now. But I do live in Atlanta. Ill take paranoid over non attentive any day!
I will work on finding that happy medium. Actually today I went to the UPS store and came back home to vacuum and do some dishes, all the while I forgot I had my rig on. Surprised me for a minute. I guess its just one of those things I need to get used to. I am sure I will progress fine on the whole thing.