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http://www.nssf.org/shooting/sports/

The links below will let you search by location for clubs, matches, events. Go find a match to watch, hopefully more than one, and figure out which style fits you.

http://www.nra.org/nralocal.aspx

http://www.uspsa.org/
http://steelchallenge.com/
http://www.idpa.com/clubs.asp