I have always used RCBS carbide dies, and in all fairness they have served me rather well. I do have 1 Redding die set for 7mm rem mag, and that is about my least favorite set. Recently, I purchased a Lee 9mm Luger 4 die set and I really like it. It was an absolute bargain at $25 new from Midway. I will definately buy another set from Lee as they do a very nice job and are real easy to setup.
It seems from reading here that there is a lot of personal preference backing up most brands as being decent. Based on that, you could probably get the job done with any brand that offers your caliber.
I believe that your shell holder will work.
Have Fun!
JSF