[Glenn E. Meyer]

Why not get everyone together and as a group work out an explicit and rehearsed action plan? Then rehearse it again.

Personally, I wouldn't want a person who is not able to handle stress behind me with a high powered gun. There are sad cases of family members shooting each other in HD situation because of misunderstandings, booboos, etc

People should not be wandering around with unknowns in the dark and you two guys blindly joined the fray.

I recall a scenario in FOF, when afterwards, a buddy finds out that he 'shot' his son.

This needs to be a group discussion. Last, if the homeowner (parents)disagrees then that's it. Your choice is to go elsewhere.