Phoebe,
Stroll over to
www.usgalco.com and check out Galco's contour-cut belts that narrow down or taper in the front. They don't look like "gun belts," but rather like simple dress belts. See
http://www.usgalco.com/HolsterP3.asp...&CatalogID=254 or
http://www.usgalco.com/HolsterP3.asp...&CatalogID=255. I can vouch for how sturdy & attractive they are.
At the same time, look at the "Ultra Deep Cover" holster (
http://www.usgalco.com/HolsterPT2.asp ), which is a nice little tuckable that will do the job for you. Don't go with the similar-appearing "USA" holster, because the USA doesn't have a reinforced mouth; that's a safety issue & not worth it.
Galco keeps products in stock & so you won't have to wait a long time for your order, either.
Hope it helps.
pax