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Old September 15, 2005, 11:49 AM   #2
XavierBreath
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Dave,
One of the things people realize as they age is how to avoid places and events that would put them at risk. You had every right to go to the concert of your choice. Knowing that some pop stars attract certain kinds of fans is something to use in your favor. Knowing parking garages are slow to empty after an event is another. I'm thinking your concerns stem from feeling totally out of control of the situation, and realizing how vulnerable you were (and you were). That is good. It is good for young men to realize they can be pounded into gooey stains by other young men. The fear you felt that makes you ask these questions is your greatest ally. It is what will protect you. Do not rationalize it away. Remember that fear, and use it in the future to keep yourself out of similar situations.

At any rate, would a gun have made a difference? Certainly. It could be the difference between you going home, spending time in jail, or laying on a slab. A gun does not solve problems. In fact, a gun often causes problems. What solves problems is accurate assessment of the situation and effective intervention. A gun only helps if there is no effective intervention available. Making your last resort your first resort is not a good thing to do.

Everyone survived your incident just fine. You can "what if" yourself till the cows come home. The reality is there is not a sure green light to effective and justifiable use of lethal force. Some will resort to lethal force to early and pay for it. Others will get it right and walk free. Still others, sadly, will resort to lethal force to late and be killed or irreversibly injured.
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