one possible approach...
Don't tell your deputy friend she was wrong. Tell her you couldn't find anything in the law and ask for her help finding it, because, you certainly don't want to be in violation.
Then, whey she can't find anything, she'll realize she was wrong (hopefully) and admit it.
Might not work, but its worth a shot (pardon the pun)
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