Righty/left eyed here. I've had a BPS since they came out, was the first gun I ever bought myself and haven't regretted it. I also have an old belgium Browning Auto-5 20 ga, sweet gun. I've never even seen an empty go whizzing past my nose, altho the safety is a pain unmodified.
Tang safeties are nice, but I haven't been bothered by any righty auto loader. Get what fits her.
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