Thanks all! I did try to get a Virginia photo ID, but they said I must turn in my NJ license first. The VA DMV website says that adult ID cards are "Issued to an individual age 15 and above who does not hold a learner's permit or driver's license issued by any state within the United States." Not sure if this is a state or federal requirement.
The Virginia concealed carry permit does not have a photo, so I can't use it for my State issued photo ID.
In NJ, the bad guys are armed and the households are alarmed. In VA, the households are armed and the bad guys are alarmed.