I think the Speer Gold Dot 135 gr +P loads for short barrels is the gold standard for snubbies that can handle +P loads. My second choice is the Remington 158 gr. +P LSWCHP. As another poster noted, it has softer lead than some of the other similar loadings. I would think the Buffalo Bore lead loads would perform well.
However, I personally would not use any of BB's jacketed hollow point or semi-jacketed hollow points without confirmation about the type of bullet they are using. In the past they have switched from Speer Gold Dots (great) to Speer uni-core bonded (not GDs but okay) to Montana Gold bonded hollow points (not so good). I know they are at the mercy of the market in what bullets they can use, but the bullet makes a big difference in terminal ballistics.
Jim's Rules of Carry: 1. Any gun is better than no gun. 2. A gun that is reliable is better than a gun that is not. 3. A hole in the right place is better than a hole in the wrong place. 4. A bigger hole is a better hole.
no guns = might makes right