+1 on post #3....
I agree with post #3.
The Buffalo Bore 158gr SWC-HP lead +P is great for defense but Id agree that the low flash, copper .38spl +P HP for snubs/J frames.
Id also suggest the Corbon DPX, the MagSafe SWAT, the Speer Gold Dot 135gr JHP +P, Winchester PDX1 load.
I do all my own stunts.