very good choice of guns. I own the Ruger SR9 compact for my daily carry and the XDM45 compact as a home defense/woods defense gun. the XDS was a little snappier than I like because I would like to be able to practice with more than a dozen rounds before my wrist starts to hurt but that's just me. for my purposes the XDM45 is not difficult to conceal and handles recoil quite well for a compact 45.
be sure to post a range review on them, I've been looking forward to hearing about the SR45.
ignore my complete lack of capitalization. I still have no problem correcting your grammar.
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