Removing the empty magazine will make it possible to get the gun out of slide lock, yes.
Have her practice that skill several times (over several sessions so she doesn't experience failure related to wearing her hands out).
After she has the skill down pat, then have her do the same thing with a full magazine.
Never bother trying to lower the slide with an empty mag in place. It's not worth the effort it's taking her.
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