Bart Noir, she's aware of the 9mm, but doesn't want one. She wants a 45 ACP.
She's a rather stubborn little dickens. In fact I have a Ruger SR9c that is
wonderfully accurate, and would be perfect for CCW. It's my EDC. Nope, too
wimpy for her (all 5'2", 105 lbs.). After nearly 39 years I'm not gonna try to
change her mind. Gotta learn on her own.
"I should have picked alcohol, drugs, or beating my wife..."