You will not find a revolver that feels like a 1911.
My standard suggestion still stands. Go to a gun show. Fondle every revolver you can get your hands on. Find the one that best fits your hand and natural point of aim. That is the revolver for you. Select the caliber you want.
For me, the Ruger SP101 in 357 was surprisingly nice to shoot. I really like that thing, especially as a carry piece.
The GP100 would be my preference for a general purpose (GP) revolver. However, if it's going to be a range toy and used for busting rocks and other knock about fun, it would be my S&W 25-2 in 45 ACP.