I, too, am prohibited HPs.
I opted for 158gr Fiocchi Subsonics.
Perhaps my logic is not good, but I followed the reasoning that 45ACP is popular because it is slow and heavy, so I looked for the same in 9mm. I have only ever seen FMJs for sale here: the only flat points I have seen are .38 and .357 etc, not 9mm Para.
As it happens I rarely carry and normally it is a .38spl. However, I decided that I'd at least have an SD option for my Glock, too, even if I rarely use it as a carry option.
When the right to effective self-defence is denied, that right to self-defence which remains is essentially symbolic.
Freedom: Please enjoy responsibly.
Any idea that relies on murder for its survival in intrinsically weak.