It is not a good idea to discuss real life, personal legal matters with strangers in public.
The OP needs the help of a qualified lawyer. We're not going to have all the information we'd need, and what goes on here is not private.
"It is long been a principle of ours that one is no more armed because he has possession of a firearm than he is a musician because he owns a piano. There is no point in having a gun if you are not capable of using it skillfully." -- Jeff Cooper