Need help choosing a duty gun
Stay away from 357 Sig if you are recoil sensitive. People that say it doesn't kick has never shot it. It kicks more than .40 in the same gun I own. Take a look at a Sig P250. It comes in 3 sizes and all calibers. There are all kinds of exchange kits for the gun and you can make it how you want it. There is a Sig P250 forum dedicated to just this model.