I really don't think S&W owes the OP anything, aside from a copy of the lab report supporting their conclusion - and even that would require at least some good will on the part of S&W.
I'm not sure if Federal owes the OP anything, if in fact that ammo had previously been recalled.
Plus, it remains to be determined if that was even Federal factory ammo.
Using old ammo from questionable sources is akin to using cheap gas from fly-by-night vendors. I have to agree with RichC.
I don't think the OP's expectations are remotely reasonable.