Welcome to The Firing Line, kryptkeeper2006!
Tom has already given you solid advice. The best advice that you'll be able to get around here is:
1) You should consult a lawyer versed firearms law, both on federal and state levels;
2) You should not consult a bunch of strangers over the internet for legal advice on potentially life-changing decisions;
3) Remember that what you discuss with your lawyer is confidential; and
4) Remember that what you post on the internet is not.
I'm going to close this thread to assist you in avoiding the temptation to post any more details that could potentially complicate your lawyer's job later. I wish you the best of luck in resolving this situation.
I'm a lawyer, but I'm not your lawyer. If you need some honest-to-goodness legal advice, go buy some.