Lyman Pistol & Revolver 3rd Edition is a good one.
It was my first manaual 4 years ago. I still use it for data to this day. I do have a Lyman 48th that was given to me by a friend a few months ago. The newest is the 49th. It has lots of good info in it though it seems more rifle oriented to me. For hand gun loads the P&R is a great one.
No matter how many times you do it and nothing happens it only takes something going wrong one time to kill you.