Originally Posted by MTAR
I can't move it just yet because... can't really afford it at the moment and I'm going to have to find a way to get a job there etc. It doesn't seem simple lol.
FWIW, folks that actually do something, find a way to do it - others only keep finding excuses why they can't.
Drive or take a bus, whatever, to the nearest border state (PA, VT, or CT - forget NJ), however many times it takes and find a job first, then