My Ruger P95 is nice, but a bit large for my hands. That was made worse by adding the Hogue hand-all, but it really has a nice feel to it with the cover.
The double-action pull is long, but the single action pull is crisp. Very similar feel to the S&W 6906. The 6906 has a mag safety, the P95 doesn't.
If cash out of pocket is an issue the P95 is worth a look, or if a local range rents, they probably have one you could try. Worth looking into for all of them....