@Utopia of course but even so I don't need him to make that decision. I am taking the lead on this since he is the one who travels extensively and I am the one who is home alone the majority of the time with our children.
The choice I have to ask myself is do I want to take responsibility for my own safety or rely on others who may only arrive in time to call the ambulance or bring the body bag?" I will NOT take that chance anymore especially now that intruders in my area know I do not have a gun thanks to The Journal News!!