Nothing wrong with the .22lr for SD....esp. if you're using good ammo and practice often. My wife can shoot her Taurus .22lr revolver well, and any threat would be in a world of hurt from her nine Velocitor rounds.
What ammo are you using for your .38Spl? You don't need expensive SD ammo there, either. A good 158gr. SWC load does well.
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